Friday, April 11, 2008

How To Catch A Cheating Husband

Have you been noticing some odd behavior from your husband lately? Have you noticed that he is acting differently, dressing differently or has suddenly taken interest in a new hobby? If you have seen any of the above happening then you need to be keenly aware of the fact that he may be cheating on you. Of course there is a slight chance that he is not, but if you are reading this article then I am guessing that your gut reaction is that he is messing around.

There are a lot of ways to catch a cheater, just as there are many fishing rods out there to catch a fish, but one will either have you fishing with the wrong bait or reeling in the big one. I hope that I can help you catch a cheating husband.

One of the things you will have to do is start paying close attention to the bills and statements. These can be dead giveaways to what is going on. Look at the credit card statement to see any fishy charges or odd locations for the use of the credit card. You will also need to pay attention to the cell phone bills as well. You can spot out any number that pops up repeatedly. Again take precaution and find out who the owner of the phone number is before you start jumping the gun. There could be a chance that it is just a business associate. Just make sure that you keep note of it for future reference.

Another thing you can start to do is keep track of what he says he is doing. If he is telling you that he is going out for a few beers with co-workers after work ask him about it when he comes home. Ask him subtle questions such as “Where did you all end up going?” or “Who else from work went?” If he is being truthful he will be able to rattle them off, if he is not being truthful you will be able to tell. Keeping track of what he is saying will also help you to find any gaps or leaks in his story.

Another crucial way to catch a cheater is to pay attention to his time on the computer. It is so easy to use the Internet to cheat in today’s world that many men are taking advantage of it. They are using sites such as Craigslist and online personal sites to hook up with women. Follow his tracks to see what he is doing when you are not around. This will provide vital clues in your tracking.

They say that your first reaction or your gut reaction is usually the correct one. There is a reason that you feel that way and it should not be ignored. You need to follow through with it. Don’t let him get away with it and don’t let him manipulate you to think that you are just over reacting. Do something about it now, catch a cheating husband while you still have a chance.

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