Getting the woman of your dreams or just even talking to them can be hard. Especially when you do not know what to say and do. If you are having problems just like that then here are four tips on how to get women.
1. Conquer your fear.
Even if you do not admit it, you surely have a fear of talking to women. They may not like what you say and laugh. This is often the mentality of many men today. A lot of you may not now this but woman likes to socialize. That is why if you want to get women the first step you need to do is talk to them, and you can only do that if you conquer your fear.
2. Do not get backed down.
Of course, negative comments cannot always be avoided. Often times when men hear painful words from women, they easily back down and give up on the girl. Giving up is really not a good idea. You may not now this but in reality, woman like to be persuaded and be cared about. Giving up just shows you are not serious about the girl for you easily gave up on her.
3. The right way to talk.
Other thing men often do wrong when talking to women is they easily show their "aces." Never ever say after a few introductions that you are very good in this and that and were like this and like that. Women want to be shown humility, and if you do that you are getting too proud and immodest. In simple terms, a "show off" When talking to them try to be humble and compliment her in the way she looks, and she dresses. This way as you go along with your conversation you would exchange questions until the time comes that she asks about your skills. That is the time that you can tell her your aces. Of course, answer only what she wants to know do not get too cocky and add flowering words to your reply.
4. Asking her phone number.
Of course, as any other conversation it has to end, but it does not mean that you cannot talk again. That is why getting her number is an essential step in getting her. However, you must be humble but cool enough to ask her number. Being way too cool can ruin your whole conversation and the worst part is she may hate you. You can also ask her if you can go on a date or ask her if you can talk again some other time.
For example, you can ask her on a date by telling her "Hey, can we talk again sometime and grab a coffee or drink?" This is one humble but cool way of asking her on a date.
As you go along with your relationship you will have a lot of time to know each other and things like that. In the end, it entirely depends on you if you really like the girl or was just blinded by her looks. Still, getting your perfect woman is a long process but in time you will surely find that girl.
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